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The Lagotto is an intelligent dog that can demand a lot from its owner, even as a puppy. We consistently find the first six months very challenging, and many families experience puppy blues. We'll explain a few topics on this page.

Puppy is in the House

After 8 or 9 weeks, the big day finally arrives: the arrival of a puppy is imminent, and it's incredibly exciting. You're full of anticipation, having spent so much time preparing for the arrival, with the breeder explaining everything you need to know, and then the big day finally comes.


Now it will be decided how this period unfolds and how consistently one can deal with the circumstances.


Here I'd like to give you a few examples of the difficulties you might encounter, especially at the beginning, and the challenges a puppy brings. This information is based on my experiences over the last 10 years and refers specifically to the Lagotto Romagnolo breed, and therefore to the working dog variety. There may be variations with other people/breeders; this is purely based on my experiences with my puppy families over the past few years.

Sleep deprivation and getting used to the box and the kennel

Sleep deprivation is a big topic, because a puppy is like a baby and can not quite hold out the night yet. The bladder cannot store urine yet and when the puppy wakes up, it must get out and loosen. This is often at night, especially at the beginning. In addition, you are very clairvoyant and of course do not want to miss that the puppy has to go out. So you don't sleep well for the first few nights and this one often interrupted. Sleep train quickly goes to the substance and is used as a method of torture, so it is clear that you quickly reach a mental limit. 


In addition, getting used to the box for the night's rest is not exactly conducive either. Because a puppy comes fresh from his mother with the siblings and has never spent the night alone, but always in the community, that usually means, he does not know a box yet and he has never been on his own. 


We recommend every family to put a box in the bedroom and have the puppy right by the bed at night so that you can hear when he wakes up and gets restless to quickly go outside with the puppy. 


Our puppies already all know a box, because it is already weeks before in the kennel to get used to it. Nevertheless, it is something completely different in the new home and the cards are reshuffled in the new home.

The box should also be a resting opportunity later in life, especially if you like to travel with the dog.



Since the puppy is not used to sleeping alone, there are a few rules that provide a lot of hustle and bustle and volume just in the first nights. 

It is always important that the puppy should be really tired, have detached from it before and actually want to sleep, then the right time is to go to bed and lock the puppy in the box. Here it does not depend on a time - as you are usually used to go to bed, because the day rhythm is still severely disturbed at the beginning. We still recommend the last time in the garden or on the meadow to loosen around 10pm and then when he is tired, in the box. 


Now it goes on with all families as follows: The puppy is dog-tired and the box is laid. The box is closed, we lie down in bed and the light is turned out. Now the next few nights will happen. The puppy screams because he doesn't want to go into the box, so he'll make this loudly known. As always recommend to endure this, because the fatigue wins and the puppy will fall asleep through his complaining. 

Depending on how persistent he is, it can take fast or even longer. It is important here that you do not get weak and respond to your whining, because any communication with the puppy is a win for him. 

But if you stick to this for a few days and do not get involved, it will improve from day to day and the puppy will learn quickly, box is bedtime and you later have a puppy who can keep his rest periods well.


If you can't stand that and get involved in the game, you're going to get more and more problems. The puppy gains attention in the fight and the endurance of whining becomes longer - up to the subject - that no box is accepted anymore.


The same game is also with the house connoisseur. Depending on where the kennel is, usually in the living room, we recommend the same procedure. Here it is only absolutely important that the puppy can not notice everything, because any appeal with the open bars leads to the puppy flooding quickly. We hang our kennel with old bed sheets, so that he can really drive down during the day and not be ripped from sleep all the time.

A connoeusness is very helpful, because you can not always have the puppy with everything and do not want to, because he should be able to stay alone later and if you teach a puppy early that he is always allowed to do everything, can come anywhere in the house / apartment, then he will check this later. 


Educating and getting used to the puppy is a nerve-wracking occasion for the first few days and will produce some disruptions in family life, because not everyone can handle the noise level well. 


But what is important to you? A puppy who can also find alone to rest and you can still move freely in the house / apartment, or to take care of the puppy 24/7?

We can only make recommendations, everyone has to decide for themselves - how they imagine the collecting life with a dog.


Here you can only note, the Lagotto is a highly energetic dog and the less he feels rest, the more energetic and restless he becomes. Finding and maintaining peace of mind - we consider indispensable in this breed.

A puppy explores everything, and very often with its teeth.


The "crazy five minutes" (zoomies) in puppies are completely normal, usually afternoon/evening bursts of energy during which they run, jump, and bite. These bursts are often caused by excess energy, overtiredness, or overstimulation. Stay calm and let the puppy be. Some puppies will lunge at their owners during these episodes; their legs, feet, or trouser legs are then "attacked" like the worst enemy with fierce growling and sometimes barking.


Dr. Astrid Schubert, a veterinary behaviorist at the Animal Health Center, sees many such cases: "Inexperienced owners often begin to doubt the animal's mental state, and sensitive people can even become genuinely afraid of their new family member. It becomes problematic when the animal can't be stopped even after five minutes, or when the children themselves flee from the dog in tears and panic. But there's nothing wrong behind it."


Where does this behavior come from? Where do the "crazy five minutes" in dogs come from?

Puppies are playful and practice all their innate behaviors while playing with their siblings. This includes hunting behavior, sexual behavior (mounting), and playful wrestling, so that later, in a serious situation, they know how to resolve conflicts without life-threatening injuries. Bite inhibition, by the way, is not innate. It is learned through play with other puppies of the same age.

These instinct-driven actions are therefore subject to so-called drives and are discharged, depending on the stimulus situation, meaningfully in a corresponding situation (the mutual chasing in the dog park) or seemingly senselessly in the living room or in the garden, and even when there is no other dog to take on the role of the hare.

Basically, this behavior is normal, and most owners are usually not afraid of their wild child when it runs around in circles on the sofa and tables and seems unresponsive.

Inexperienced owners and sensitive people are frightened by this behavior. And if children, for example, scream and run away, they only attract the dog's attention even more: nothing is more delightful than a squealing, fast-moving child who squeals even louder when you jump on them or nip their legs!

The solution to the mystery is: rest and activity.

A puppy's development is never complete without these bursts of energy. And that would be a shame, because knowing that these "crazy five minutes" are perfectly normal and will disappear with age allows you to sit back, laugh until you cry, and simply enjoy these times.
If the "five minutes" last longer than 15 minutes, or if an attack on the owner is always immediately called for, help is needed.

What 15-week-old puppy really gets enough exercise from three 20-minute walks? And if you just use common sense, it quickly becomes clear: if we didn't separate the puppies from their mother and littermates, if they stayed together, would there really be a supervisor standing by with a stopwatch at 15 weeks old, holding up a stop sign after 30 minutes? "Stop, your playtime is over! Everyone lie down in the corner immediately, and please, no more roughhousing for the next four hours! Running, playing, jumping over stones and logs is strictly forbidden!"

Let's be honest – nature doesn't follow these man-made rules. Quite the opposite: these rules are unnatural and often lead to behavioral problems, because the under-stimulated puppies find an outlet in ways like chewing things or chasing children.

Of course, you shouldn't overexert a puppy. Half an hour of continuous running is too much. Even a short hike in the Munich hills lasting over an hour is too much. A long stroll through the city is also unsuitable for little ones. With common sense, careful observation, and a little common sense, you'll quickly know when it's too much, and also when it's too little.

Here are the most important points:

  • What happens? Puppies run around in circles like crazy, chase invisible things, bark, or bite leashes, furniture, or people.
  • When? Often in the evening, when the dog is tired or has had to take in too many impressions during the day.
  • What to do?
  • Don't take it personally: Biting is usually not aggression, but play behavior.
  • Keep Calm: Don't yell at the puppy, that will only excite it further.
  • Secure yourself: Remove dangerous objects.
  • Redirect? Use a chew toy, a filled Kong, or a flirt pole to channel the energy in an orderly way.
  • Cancellation: If things get too wild, often the only thing that helps is a short throw-out into the garden (if possible) or a short, quiet time-out in the kennel.
  • Duration: Usually 10 to 15 minutes, then they often fall asleep, exhausted.


Attention:

 Lagotto is a workingdog


The education and utilization of a puppy require neither excessive rigour nor laissez-faire, but an attentive observation of his individual needs


Utilization of the puppy

In addition to discovery tours, playing with you is the greatest pleasure for the puppy. I would always start with simple search games, dummy training, aporting and things that have a short attention. Puppies are not very persistent yet, so here you make short sequences with search games. 

There are many good instructions on the Internet on how to build great search games yourself, how to make good use of the dog. Creativity is required here.

It is important that the Lagotto does something for the head otherwise is quickly boring and we will get back into the loop of the Zoomie 5 min phase. 


A Lagotto is a working dog that has a lot of energy and you have to use it. A healthy mix of work and rest.


Important principles for the utilization of the Lagotto puppy:

  Mental utilization before physical: Due to their original use as water and work or Truffle search dogs are the main instrument of the Lagotto.
  Nose work/search games: hide toys or treats in the house or garden.
  Exporting: Lagotti like to retrieve and often.
  Basic obedience: Short, playful training sessions.
  Socialization: Get the puppy used to different people early, environments, sounds, and ESPECIALLY other dog breeds. (since Lagotti is heavily inclined to introversion)
  Grooming: The grooming is part of the daily routine, since the Lagotto must be shorn throughout his life. 


In addition, activities with the puppy also promote the connection.

Puppyblues

What exactly is puppy blues?


The term "puppy blues" is based on the "baby blues" that many new parents experience. After the initial euphoria, reality suddenly sets in: the little dog is a full-time job.

Lack of sleep because the puppy isn't sleeping through the night yet.

Constant running outside because the dog isn't house-trained yet.

Gnawing, biting, pulling – everywhere!

The feeling that life as you knew it suddenly no longer exists.

Hormone cocktail in disarray


In short: Your puppy is doing things that every puppy does, but the combination of responsibility, feeling overwhelmed, and perhaps even self-doubt makes it feel huge. There might also be external pressure, lots of advice, and conflicting information.

And then there's that unpleasant little voice in your head:

"Did I make a mistake?"
"Can I do this?"
"What if it stays like this forever?"

Take a deep breath – no, you didn't make a mistake. Yes, it will get better. And no, it won't stay like this forever.


Why does this happen?

Quite simply: A puppy brings huge changes – emotionally, in terms of time, and sometimes financially. It's not a cuddly toy that obediently behaves according to your wishes, but a small living being with its own needs that knows nothing yet about the world.

Many new dog owners feel overwhelmed because they feel they aren't doing enough or aren't meeting the dog's needs. Others are so exhausted by the adjustment to their new life that they long for their "old routine".

And you know what? That's perfectly fine.


Hormone levels also play a role!

If you're wondering why you're reacting so emotionally to the first few weeks with your new dog – your hormones are playing a part. Stress hormones like cortisol can rise, while happiness hormones like dopamine sometimes experience a slight dip. Lack of sleep and emotional tension also contribute to the effect. This means your feelings aren't just psychological, but also perfectly normal from a biochemical perspective! So give yourself time – your body and mind need a while to adjust to the new family member.

How to overcome the puppy blues:

The good news is that the puppy blues passes. The even better news: You can do a lot to feel good faster.


1. Set realistic expectations

A puppy is not a perfectly functioning, small robot. He’s a baby, and babies are chaotic. Your task is not to make everything perfect from day 1, but to grow step by step into your life together.


2. Breaks are allowed – and important!

Yes, a puppy needs attention and training. But you also need rest! Take a bit of a little breaks into your day where you can take a short breath – even if it’s just a hot coffee on the balcony while the little fluffling is sleeping. Here the guy also helps you to treat you to the break.


3. Get support

You don't have to do it all alone! Family, friends or even professional trainers can help make the first few weeks more relaxed. If the puppy blues hits you particularly hard, talk to other dog people openly about it. You will see that you are not the only person!


4. Put off perfectionism

It's perfectly fine if not every day with your dog goes according to plan. Sometimes the training works better, sometimes worse – that’s normal. Allow yourself to make mistakes and remember that your fur ball still needs to be learned.


5. Looking ahead: It will be easier!

Maybe everything feels huge right now, but your little wuff will grow, learn and fit better and better into everyday life. In a few months, you may not even remember what it felt like to be in the garden at night at 3 a.m.